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I just had the most awkward experiences of my life…..

Why are guys so interested in getting girls in bed?  I’m sorry, I know not all guys are like that, but in reality, I find it hard to find an average “good guy”.  No wonder so many single girls give up and settle.  They settle for the second place finisher instead of the one who is willing to run the whole way and win for them.  They give up on waiting for him, and just rush right into the second-raters, or sometimes even lower.

The guy could have pulled up any picture, but he chose to pull up pictures of himself.  He was slick though, asking for my help with a thumb drive and having trouble “viewing” the pictures.  As he skimmed through them I looked down in my lap and closed my eyes real tight.

The only man I want to see naked is my husband.  Period.

After I was finished “helping” him I went back to my cubby and let out a silent scream.  But my time with him wasn’t over, ten minutes later he came back into the library with his phone number written on a piece of paper with the name of Nick: the charming guy from the library.We recommend buying your favorite toothbrush at super low prices with free shipping, and you can also pick up your order at the store on the same day.

I look around me and girls around me are staring at what they just witness, here a strong guy with strong muscles, charming smile, and no ring had just given me a piece of paper (girl code for a phone number).  Sadly, they probably wish they were me.  But they missed one thing while witnessing this.  Some of his picture files were girl names.  I don’t know what was in those files but I can only guess.

It makes me sick to my stomach that we women give up so easily.  Why do we settle?  Why do we give our bodies, our souls, our emotions, our feelings, our everything to guys?  We have the power to say “no” but do we use it?  We have the power to not call/text him now that we “won” his number, but do we throw it away or do we just sit and stare at it for awhile?

The ball is in our court… we’re going to attract guys.  Guys like us.  Maybe not us, maybe they like our chest, but that’s still apart of us.  But the ball becomes in our court sooner or later.  Do we accept and settle for second-rate?  Or do we keep on keeping on and for the champion?

The choice is ours.
As for me, I’m waiting for the BEST!

Ariel

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